Is pointing with your index finger polite in Spain?

Use with discretion. In Spain, pointing with the index finger is generally considered impolite or aggressive in everyday social interactions, especially when directed at a person. Spaniards often prefer to gesture with an open hand or nod their head to indicate direction or a person. This is rooted in a cultural emphasis on personal space and indirect communication.

Instead of pointing, gesture with your whole hand (palm up or open) or use a slight head tilt to indicate a person or direction.

In more rural or older generations, pointing may be seen as ruder, while in younger, urban circles it is sometimes tolerated but still not preferred.