Avoid pointing directlyHigh confidence
Explanation
In Vietnam, pointing with your index finger is considered rude and accusatory, especially when directed at a person. It is associated with negative gestures and can be seen as disrespectful. Instead, use your whole hand with palm facing up to gesture toward someone or something.
Varies locally: In rural areas, pointing with the index finger may be even more strongly frowned upon, while younger urban Vietnamese may be more tolerant of the gesture in informal settings.
Local Tip
When indicating a person or object, gesture with your open hand, palm upward, or use a slight nod of the head.
How it compares elsewhere
Japan
Pointing with the index finger is considered impolite; use an open hand instead.
United States
Pointing with the index finger is generally acceptable in casual contexts.
Indonesia
Pointing with the index finger is offensive; use the thumb or an open hand.
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